Yes, you read that right. I am counting calories. And I will be the first one to call myself out.
I once wrote a post called 10 Reasons Why You Should Stop Dieting. Plus my tagline is “Your Journey to Your Happiest and Healthiest Life – NO DIETS ALLOWED.” I personally hate the word diet. Yet, here I am counting calories. Does that mean I’m on a diet? Gah, I sure hope not! Let me explain how this counting calories situation came to be and then I’d love some feedback on if you think this is healthy or not.
Instead of putting things into sentences and full paragraphs, we’re going bullet-point form. I’m still trying to make sense of things myself and can’t exactly get my thoughts straight to decide if this is a good thing or not.
* I have been recovered from my eating disorder for over 3 years.
* I have listened to my body and its hunger signals for the most part in those 3 years
* The foods I sometimes choose to eat when I feel hungry haven’t been the healthiest or most nutritious (ie, there have been more chips & salsa + beer dinners than I’d like to admit – but I always followed hunger signals)
* I still own my scale…. (eek! I’m not supposed to own it, I know)
* I stepped on it last week knowing that it would be higher than I expected because my clothes weren’t fitting well anymore – it ended up being even HIGHER than I thought it would be.
* I can’t afford a new wardrobe
* In order to wear clothes that fit, I needed to pay closer attention to WHAT I was eating when I got hungry.
So those are the series of events that led me to revisit my MyFitnessPal app (MFP) in order to start keeping track of what I’m eating. I’m still enjoying the foods that I want, although in a much smaller and much more conscious and educated mindset. When I eat, I enter it into the app. If it’s a recipe from another site, a lot of times you can just import the recipe and match up the ingredients really quickly. Super simple and doesn’t take a whole lot of time.
Making this decision to track my calories in and out has been kind of a difficult one. I’ve had to constantly ask myself questions in order to keep myself in check:
* am I being obsessive?
* am I restricting?
* am I making sure to get close to the recommended calories? (MFP will automatically calculate the amount of calories you should be eating depending on your activity level and what your weight loss goals are. And it knows that you shouldn’t be losing weight faster than about 1 lb a week.)
* would I freak out if I didn’t track my calories for a day or two?
So the answer to these questions are that no, I’m not being obsessive or restrictive. Yes, I’m getting close to the amount of calories I should be. And no, I wouldn’t freak out. I actually didn’t track my calories at all over the weekend last week and I did just fine. In fact, I’m going on a little vacation this weekend and have zero plans of tracking my calories. I will enjoy food and beverages. I will make healthy choices. I will try not to over-do it. I just know that I don’t want to spend my fun & relaxing time worrying about that stuff. And then back to it next week.
So am I on a diet?
No. I’m being more conscious of what I’m eating and how much of it I’m eating. I still don’t have any restrictions as far as what I eat, although my natural preference has been to whole foods and produce.
I personally am treating this situation as if I never had an eating disorder. I am not that person anymore. I do not have to worry about going down a spiral. But the truth of the matter is that I have gained a little bit of weight and would like to take a healthy amount of control over that again. Just like a person with a healthy relationship with food would do. It’s simple science that I’m following here. In order to lose weight, you must consume less than you burn. As long as you don’t go to extremes I see nothing wrong with it.
The #1 tell-tale sign that I am making a healthy decision:
Is this a way of life that I could live with forever? YES!! Like I said. I’m still allowing whatever I want to eat, I’m just being more aware and needed to have a “come-to-jesus-reality-check” with myself. What I mean by that is that I had to remind myself that if I want to reach certain health & fitness goals, I’m not going to get there by eating ice cream for dinner. Simple fact that I had to remind myself of.
EDIT: Something that just came to my mind. I don’t intend on keeping track of calories forever. The point of this is to get a feel of what “x” amount of calories feels like again. I have been so used to just eating whatever I wanted, and the truth of the matter is that I’ve probably been eating MUCH more than I imagined.